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这里的“过去”，指的是计划经济时代或计划经济时代之前。
结婚是确定婚姻关系的最后一道礼仪程序。由传统的提亲、相亲、定亲、登记到结婚，婚姻关系就完成了，男方一颗悬着的心也就“落”到肚子里了。
结婚这天，阜平六区男方家叫“娶媳妇”，女方家称“聘闺女”，同称办喜事。双方都要在各自的家门贴上红喜字和红对联。男方家贴双喜，即“囍”；女方家贴单喜。
男方家要选一人去女方家迎亲。迎亲人一般要选新郎的姑父、姐夫或弟弟，牵上毛驴备好鞍，上午到达女方家，进村要放“二踢脚”，意为告诉对方迎亲的到了。俗话云：“叮——当两声炮，吓得媳妇心里跳。”女方家的人听到炮响，把娶亲人迎到家里，吃过午饭后，根据路途远近，确定出发时间，下午把新媳妇娶到男方家。
女方家要从亲戚中挑选十来人前往送亲。送亲人选为新娘的伯伯伯母（或叔婶）、舅妗、哥嫂、弟弟、姐妹等，嫂嫂多为伴娘。还要选一名男童“压轿”。不管什么季节，新媳妇都要穿一身棉衣（意为婚后家庭厚实），外套红嫁妆，打扮一番，骑上毛驴，由迎亲人牵着毛驴向男方家走去，送亲的人步行跟着走吧。半路上遇到熟人或邻村的人，会向迎亲的人索要喜烟、喜糖，图得是个热闹和喜庆。现在条件好了，娶亲时男方家租用轿车、中巴车或出租车，骑毛驴和步行娶亲已成为历史。
新媳妇到了男方家村口要放炮，男方众人立即把新娘迎到家门口，此时看热闹的人也多了起来，新媳妇如果不下驴或不下车，男方家心领神会，马上给“压轿”的孩童塞红包，如果新媳妇还不落地，就再给一个红包，直到孩童满意后，新娘才肯下来，由新郎家人领入洞房。同时把送亲的人安排妥当，他们是婚礼中最尊贵的客人，必须好接好待，得罪不得。至此，结婚礼仪就基本结束。
也许有人会问：新郎怎么没有露面？这就是阜平六区婚礼与外地的不同之处。六区人的思想过于保守和含蓄，新郎既不去迎亲，也不亲自把媳妇迎到家里，更没有什么“一拜天地，二拜高堂，夫妻对拜，送入洞房”之类的仪式，早害羞地不知躲到哪里去了，单等晚上入洞房哩。
比之于外地，阜平六区婚礼上是比较节俭的。比如筵席上的菜，说是“八个碟八个碗”什么的，实际上没有个像样的好菜，就是些猪肉、豆腐、粉条、海带之类。现在生活好了，增加点鸡、鱼、啤酒、饮料，这就是上等席。再比如随礼凑份子，过去亲朋前去贺喜，根本就不随礼，要随礼也是毛巾、脸盆什么的，倒是得此良机打打牙祭。
现在除了至亲（新郎、新娘的舅舅、姑姑）可能上点礼（也有限）外，其他亲戚一般不上礼，新郎的朋友们凑份子，也不过三头五十块的，还不够他们去抽烟、喝酒的。这样做并非阜平六区人小气，实在是由经济条件和善良的本性决定的。谁家办事要收礼，便被视为趁机发财，为正直的人家所不为，即便是出于无奈收了礼，有的也要悄悄退回去。
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